2025-11-24

Fight with Ashlie because I was using a little time in the morning to prepare the car to pick up her family and clean the toilet before they arrive while all she had to do was feed Kyla and she simply instructs I need to take over so she can have an hour to relax before work. Then proceeds to tell me my reaction to this demand was full of attitude and says I should have calmly stated or asked if I could finish cleaning first - the irony here is absurd, with no realisation she could have applied this logic to the initiation of the discussion which sets the tone. For example, she could have said, “hey are you still needing to finish things?” Or something to the effect of a queation before making a demand with the insinuation Im not doing my role.

Used the fact that I've gone away for a weekend a few times while she was taking the year off with no other priorities other than to watch Kyla against me. Simply because she has no life and goes nowhere I have to suffer the price.

Uses the fact that i work for myself against me as if because I work for myself i have no schedule or priorities and I can just be interrupted whenever whereas because she worksfdor someone that somehow gives her superiority in the argument of providing support. It doesn't, what matters is actual support provided and actual time given to get work done, regardless of position - both should be treated equally, unless of course you just want to win an argument instead of agreeing on what is fair.